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Deep questions for couples to ask each other
Deep questions aren’t an interrogation or a therapy session. They’re warm questions you ask each other: about first impressions, about what matters to you, about what you dream of. A good one leaves you closer after the answer.
How to play: one question can fill a whole evening. Ask it calmly, hear the whole answer, then ask “why?”.
About how it began
- 1What first impression did you have of me… that turned out wrong?
- 2When did you know you wanted me, specifically?
- 3What were you afraid of before we married that turned out easier?
- 4What moment from our first year do you remember most?
- 5What did you see in me that nobody else saw?
- 6When did you first feel you could be completely yourself with me?
- 7What did you learn about me in our first year that changed how you saw me?
- 8Which memory makes you laugh every time?
- 9What did I once say to you that you still remember?
- 10If you wrote the first chapter of our story, what would it be called?
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About us now
- 11What small thing do I do that makes a difference on a hard day?
- 12When did you feel my opinion really mattered to you?
- 13What do you wish I always remembered about you?
- 14What do you need from me when you go quiet?
- 15What part of you do you want me to protect, not fix?
- 16What have you started doing for me without noticing?
- 17When did you feel we were truly one team?
- 18What do you want me to know about you but feel shy to say?
- 19What about me reassures you most?
- 20What do you need from me most these days?
About what’s next
- 21What dream do you want us to reach together?
- 22Where do you see us in ten years?
- 23What habit do you want us to start this week?
- 24What trip do you dream of taking together?
- 25What do you want us to leave behind?
- 26What promise do you want us to make each other now?
- 27What makes you excited about our next year?
- 28What would you like to learn from me?
- 29If we started a ritual that was only ours, what would it be?
- 30If our love story were a movie, what would it be called, and why?
FAQ
What’s the difference between deep questions and truth questions?
Truth questions reveal; deep questions bring you closer. There’s no “confess” here, only “what matters to you” and “what do you need from me”.
How many deep questions should we ask in one night?
One or two is plenty if the answers are long. In DareZone, the Deep Questions game picks the right question for you, with your names.